Leadership Coaching
for Brilliant, Behind-the-Scenes Asian American Women
What if everything we’re doing to be good, was actually holding us back from being great?
We think we are being deferent, showing appropriate respect.
But end up being complicit to a narrative of our own insignificance.
We stay behind the scenes, feeling satisfaction in our ability to gently pull strings.
But only because we quietly gave up our dreams, accepting our status as invisible.
We hold our duties as sacred.
Even when they are literally destroying our health, finances, and relationships.
We caretake with love and hospitality, giving generously to build up our own communities, holding everyone together with the glue of one more home-cooked meal.
Denying the fact that we are also in need of caretaking.
We study and achieve, racing to outpace past generations so we don’t waste their sacrifices and suffering.
But burnout trying to earn the costs paid by our ancestors without properly honoring our need to heal the intergenerational trauma we are carrying.
You are worthy to be seen.
You are worthy to be seen.
A dear friend and I were reflecting on my identity recently. She said it bothered her so few people saw beyond the package I come in. Because I am vast. I am brilliant. I am light. But because I come in a body that gets pre-judged, I get dismissed. And overlooked.
It’s been a long journey to grieve this reality, and finally, decide to do something about it. Because it turns out, the only person who can change that narrative, is me.
I can play along or I can resist. Either way it’s going to cost me something. The question is - what is the cost of my choosing? And am I making it intentionally or unconsciously?
I want to make it consciously. How about you?
If you want to try on the words “I am a leader” in a safe space - I can help you do that. Let’s work out the kinks and nerves together.
I can help you learn how to hone and highlight your organizational prowess and undervalued soft skills so you can elevate from a behind the scenes strategist, hiding in the wings while other people get the spotlight (and the credit), to authoritative, emotionally intelligent, empowered leader, who isn’t afraid to shine.
Empower your Voice
Overcome your fear of adopting a more authoritative voice by learning how to trust your own brilliance, skills, and talents as certainties rather than question marks.
Cultivate Confidence
Balance your innate humility with bold decisions, actions and clarity, relying on your internal sense of direction, vision, and purpose, instead of what others offer you.
Embody a Leader’s Presence
Harness the power of your presence, even when everyone acts like you’re only at the table to take notes and bring the snacks.
Uncover the Mechanics
Understand and navigate the challenges faced by Asian American women in leadership roles, and how to use your strengths to thrive despite them.
Remain Authentically You
Go deeper into your authentic leadership style, based on your own personal and cultural values, not what the world believes a leader should be.
Design your Future
Rewrite the stories about your role and station in life to imagine something more aligned with your true potential, not the limitations of your environment.
Coaching Packages
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A short term, high impact experience during which you’ll have one on one support to uncover and overcome your fears and identify your strengths.
Includes:
3, 50 minute virtual coaching sessions over 6 to 8 weeks
Text/email support as needed between sessions (M-F)
Next steps planning
You’ll walk away with more confidence in your own abilities, a deeper sense of your worthiness to be seen, and hopefully an extra dose of courage to take up more space.
$447
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This is a focused season of coaching for those who want to make tangible progress towards empowering and cultivating their leadership presence, voice, and confidence.
Includes:
6, 50 minute virtual coaching sessions over 2-3 months
Text/email support as needed between sessions (M-F)
Next steps planning
This is for those ready to make changes, try new strategies, and step out into spaces you never thought could be for you, all while staying rooted in your values.
$844 ($50 savings!
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Transformation doesn’t happen without sustained effort, growth mindset, and courage to pick up and keep going when things get hard.
This package is for women who are ready to stop performing for others and start living and leading in a way that is intention, aligned, and fully authentic to who you are.
Includes:
12, 50 minute virtual coaching sessions over 6 - 8 months
Text/email support as needed between sessions (M-F)
Next steps planning
Optional co-working/body doubling sessions
If you know you are ready to invest in yourself, want to feel supported by a trusted partner and guide who can help you navigate through inevitable roadblocks, and help you stay sustained throughout the journey - this one’s for you!
$1,488 (savings of $300!)